PistolPeteJR wrote:AEnigma wrote:I guess if no one else is going to say it, I may as well: regardless of whether there was any negative intent behind it, I do not see the purpose in bringing up family members during a deliberately adversarial conversation.
I don't think Colbinii meant it maliciously, but I do agree it's wisest to avoid these things.
There was 100% non malicious. VanWest has mentioned in the past how he was at his daughters basketball game.
I simply made a comment about how if the season is over for LeBron fans, it isn't over for me (Minnesota Fan) or Him (Daughters basketball league).
While you say it is adversarial, it's an internet forum where I can think someone is a dumbass, troll and waste of internet data storage but also understand they are human. I don't hate humans unless they are absolute vile beings who have done harm to many people or continuously lie to many people (think people like Luis Garavito or Bashar Al Assad or to a lesser extent Donald Trump as I am a US Citizen and Resident).
So when I brought up someone's family member, understanding the context is important. Clearly many people disagreed with it, but I find it most important when analyzing discourse is understanding intent. While we were in a back and forth (and at that point it was quite civil), nothing I said or did was mean, nasty, malicious or of ill-intent.
I'm obviously not going to bring up his or likely anyone's family members on here again unless it's in a positive light during a positive discussion, but it appears many people jumped to a conclusion that just because it's VanWest82 (Spends time hating a sports figure on the internet) vs Non-Hater, that it is malicious, and it wasn't.
If you think it's bad or crossed a line you should probably re-read the conversation from the beginning.